Mommin’ Ain’t Easy

What’s something most people don’t understand?

What’s something most people don’t understand?

That being a stay-at-home mom is actually a full-time job. I don’t clock in. I don’t clock out. I don’t get sick days. No PTO. No “I’ll circle back tomorrow.”

I homeschool—but not in the color-coded, gold star chart kind of way. I put on YouTube for Spanish and sign language lessons. I handle art, music, and the important stuff like flashcards for numbers, colors, animals, and whatever object she’s currently obsessed with.

Some days it looks productive. Some days it looks like watching “dogs” (101 Dalmatians) for the third time and calling it a lesson in disguise.

It’s not perfect. It’s not structured. It’s real life. No, I’m not a Red Bull–infused day camp counselor handing out cookies and juice boxes with a whistle around my neck. I’m just a mom… figuring it out as I go. Teaching, guiding, redirecting, surviving. All day. Every day.

And if you’re wondering… yes, I’m underpaid and overworked—and the benefits are totes unmatched.

Cheers to the moms holding it down after another successful day of unpaid, full-time employment. Let’s wine-d down together… because we deserve all the credit.

Responses

  1. Anita Avatar

    Mommin’ is the most influential job on the planet. It is not easy no matter how you look at it. Mothers have the most power. May you be blessed!!

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    1. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

      Thank you Anita…🥹 May you be blessed as well! Have a wonderful weekend my friend!

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  2. David Pearce Music Reviewer Avatar

    So true. My wife and I shared duties at home with one of us going to work and one of us looking after the children full time. It was the hardest, most rewarding and most enjoyable job I’ve ever done. I wouldn’t change those 4 or 5 years for anything.

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    1. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

      Same here, I might complain on the stressful days but they’re all a lesson learned. Cheers to you my friend!

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  3. @1942dicle Avatar

    Staying At Home -period- being a glorified Hausfrau or in polite words- a homemaker with or without a child- is also the same. Ladies, listen UP; if you are not one for working for others, build your own career at home. Stand out, be noticed, be proud.

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    1. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

      I hear you! There are so many different paths for women at home. For me, this season is all about my daughter and the day-to-day of mom life—but I respect the hustle in building something too.

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  4. traciesulpazo Avatar

    I don’t know how you all do it, but kudos to you all.

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    1. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

      I was hoping to hear from you today! 🫶🏻

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  5. Eniobanke's Blog Avatar

    This is what my life looks like, very imperfect but truly rewarding. homeschooling my kids is fulfilling in this stage of our lives.

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    1. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

      So rewarding! How old are your kiddos?

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      1. Eniobanke's Blog Avatar

        6 and 4

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      2. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

        Fun ages! Mine is in her prime two-berty phase. 🫣

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      3. Eniobanke's Blog Avatar

        😄, before you know it, she’d grow up so fast. How’s homeschooling for you? Are you in a community of other homeschooling families?

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      4. Lindsay Bloomer Avatar

        She did go to a daycare but it got so expensive. I call it “homeschooling” but it’s more stay at home mom. I give her lessons everyday so she stays busy. I’m new to the area so I’m not really sure on other families.

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